"Five Enchantment" Helps You Succeed.

It is an era of "judging people by appearance".

It is said that in just 30 seconds, your client or your interviewer will give you the final judgment in their minds: can you win a certain order, whether you can be accepted by your favorite company, can you be promoted by the boss?

Maybe it depends on your gesture, a wording, or a smile.

To a certain extent, many people succeed because they look like a successful person.

This is the so-called "workplace charm".

Here, we have provided you with 5 highly specific exercises, starting from today.

Action 1: an authoritative voice, a flustered and harsh voice, tends to make others nervous.

If you can lower the voice a little bit, control the speed slowly and moderately, and guide someone who listens to you through some short pause, you can easily win the good impression of the speaker.

There are professional voice coaches in foreign countries. The most basic advice they have given is: "when you talk, you will relax your body and control your feet well."

That is to say, if we can keep our body upright when we speak, and distribute the center of gravity evenly to our feet, our speech will make a deeper impression on others.

It is also important for them to speak in a "magnetic" voice.

A slightly lower voice than the usual voice sounds particularly attractive.

However, the attention to maintain "degree", after that, became deliberately cool, many radio and TV hosts have this problem.

Strategy: you can start training early and make your voice more magnetic: when you prepare breakfast, make coffee or make up, gently use your throat to repeat the "m" sound.

This training can also improve the bad habit of quivering when speaking on important occasions.

We have to admit that it depends on our body language to the extent of 55%.

When you are wearing a suit and you are drooping your eyes across the whole office, you will surely leave a bad impression of your boss who does not wake up, ignore others or be a yes man.

However, if you walk in the office very easily and straightly, you will not give the impression of the front.

This does not mean that we are going to exaggerate the catwalk like a model. Just pay attention to it and don't bow your back.

Because people who can only curl up and walk, often give people a very unreal feeling.

When considering the promotion list, the boss often delete the name of such a person.

Strategy: do you notice your shadow from a desk looking out on a piece of glass?

Do you habitually tilt your head to one side?

This is a typical female movement, and it is a flattering symbol in the animal world.

Remember to remind yourself to change it.

Action three: act in good faith. A wise and popular speaker tends to focus his attention on the other person.

He will keep eye contact with others, and speak less than others (the best ratio is 49%).

This is a sign of "I am not a self centred person. I will give you enough space because I am a harmonious person."

People who have this attitude can always give their partner a full sense of trust, because he feels that what he is talking about is very important to you.

A truly attractive person is a respectable listener and a loyal secret man.

Strategy: if you think you have too little time to listen every day, you might as well eat with a colleague who is completely different from your character and listen to him.

You will be amazed at what you know from him.

Action four: act wisely and boldly. In the new environment, how to distinguish oneself from behavior is brave or risky. Women often find it difficult.

The reason is that women tend to be more fussy about their appearance, and prefer to hide themselves. They also like to keep thinking about what others think of themselves.

Only when you believe in your beliefs are inspiring sparks.

Strategy: replace all sentences with "others" in the meeting into "me" as the subject of a sentence to emphasize your point.

Try and add an expression of "I think" and "I think" before an opinion is published in an hour.

Action five: act of attraction: no matter how good your idea is, no matter how good your idea is, if you want others to be interested in it, you must describe it as concise as possible.

Adding some colored markers or annotations to the report material will be more attractive than boring data accumulation.

For your boss or client, they will also be more likely to concentrate on what you are saying.

Moreover, when you see someone else's interest in your report, you will naturally feel that it is pleasant to make a presentation.

In general, our field of work may be very strange to others, and it will be difficult for them to understand it at once.

So try to explain your new idea to your friends in other industries.

15 minutes later, if he knows what you mean, you will succeed.